MUNICH Parents should only help children with their homework when the children become completely stuck on their own, says New Advice from Germany on how to help children become more independent.
Under no circumstances should parents oversee homework being done from start to finish as this can lead to children relying on help, according to the magazine Parents for families published in Munich.
The magazine said that it was important for the child to explain the problem it is experiencing.
When children have to explain the difficulties, it helps them to assimilate what they have already learned and this can often lead them to finding a solution on their own.
Even when the atmosphere becomes a little tense, parents should try to stick to the point and to the work at hand, and refrain from scolding the child.
The magazine said children also need ordered working surroundings in which to do their homework. At an early stage, a kitchen table or may do, however, a desk or other work-surface may be more appropriate at a later.
The child should also not have to put up with the distraction of a radio, television or other children while trying to do homework.
In order to avoid arguments, a time should be set aside for homework to be done. Parents should observe their children and try and find out when are most capable of applying themselves to homework tasks. The magazine also suggests that parents should remember to praise and reward their children as this can often help those who are reluctant to learn.
(DPA)